Thursday 28 July 2011

toys, toys, toys! ( and a ramble)

A few things this time to talk ( most likely ramble) about.
I recently bought the clitoral halo for my electro sex machine. While I'm still getting the hang of using the thing it is at the moment seeming like a good purchase.
Electro sex kind of feels like the vibrations from a normal vibrator but under the skin. If anyone has used a TENS machine as part of pain relief it feels more or less like that. My e stim has lower intensities though and more variation of speeds and patterns.
the clitoral halo is metal and is relatively easy to use, only problem I've encountered with it is if I get too carried away and let it stray right over the clitoral nerve which is ridiculously painful! At low levels though, with plenty of lube and warming up it gives really strong orgasms. Not exactly the quick fix my other vibes do, but a nice slow teasing form.

Another toy recently added to my collection is the g- ki. while I've still not squirted like I really want to I can get myself to orgasm in about a minute with the toy. Have more or less just used it as a dildo but it is nice to have the option to make it vibrate if i desire. Have found though that vibrations on my G spot ( or the place that feels really fucking awesome) is a little painful, in a non pleasurable way

I've also become obsessed with bondage and BDSM at the moment and whenever i masturbate it's always that my mind wanders to or it's that type of porn i get off to. Rough and hard sex with lots of hair pulling and being called a slut is appealing to me, as well as fanning my curiosity towards rope bondage. I would love to feel the sensations of breast bondage or to be held down and gagged while being fucked or while giving oral to the dominant partner.
Alas it seems like something that I shall have to be patient for, because there is no one on the horizon at the moment.

DP ( or double penetration) is intriguing as well. It's not something I've done with a partner and I tend to have irrational fears about the cleanliness of anal, so experimentation on my own has been limited. It's something I really must explore now that I have access to plenty of nitrile gloves and time in the evening when other house members are in bed. From when I have tried with a butt plug it seemed really fun and pleasurable, so I am almost certain it is something to add to my regular masturbatory repertoire and possibly as the ultimate fantasy if the right men come along. Even anal play will add a new dimension to a sex life that is a solo effort.

Living in a small rural community is great in many ways: less noise and pollution and there's lots of nature. However I do miss being able to go out of the house whenever I wanted and grab a coffee or my favorite magazine without having to wait for a shoddy bus service. Sex wise it's pretty hard to be kink positive in a town with an aging conservative population and people my age I went to school with. Everyone knows everyone else and it's unlikely that anything could remain discreet.

1 comment:

  1. I'm glad you got the Halo. I'm still getting the hang of the wave, I guess it'll take time.

    This lube just came in stock at LH recently: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22397 it's an antibacterial anal lubricant. As you are worried about the cleanliness of anal it might be something to consider getting (or put on your OA wishlist):)

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